Di Manakah Kesilapan Kita (Part 1)

Alhamdulillah....~
Segala puji bagi Allah SWT Yang Maha Pengasih Lagi Maha Penyayang. Selawat dan Salam kepada Nabi Muhammad SAW, dengan berkat guru-guru serta hikmah dan karamah kedua ibu bapa, dapat aku berblog setelah sekian lama blog ni terbiar usang......

Dalam tempoh setahun lebih tak berblog ni macam macam benda dah berlaku......perot dah maken maju kehadapan.....bertunang pon dah.....tunggu nak menikah ja pertengahan tahun ni......tak kurang juga dengan aktiviti aktiviti yang aku semakin aktif selepas waktu kerja yang mana pernah aku buat suatu ketika dahulu......

Ermmm
Act baru baru ni aku ada la membaca sebuah buku yang ditulis oleh Prof. Dr. Yusuf Al-Qardhawi berjudul "Di Manakah Kesilapan Kita". Tertarik dengan penulisan beliau, menceritakan tentang umat Islam di zaman sekarang ni(yang mana orang slalu cakap zaman dulu laen, zaman sekarang laen).

"Zaman dah berubah"
Basically aku tak brapa gemar sangat dengan penggunaan istilah "zaman dah berubah" yang acap kali digunakan oleh lapisan masyarakat belia kita. Kalau dikaji balek ayat tu.....macam mana nak cakap haaa....kira dah jadi macam zaman pulak yang mengubah tamadun manusia......zaman pulak yang dok buat bangunan......zaman la yang dok buat pakaian.....zaman la yang dok buat macam macam aih....~ Mana dok ada zaman yang berubah.....yang dok buat rasa zaman dah berubah tu pasai kita yang buat......contoh la kan.....anak anak muda kita ni dengan cara pemakaian depa......yang rambot hitam jadi kaler laen.....yang dok pakai baju tak cukop kain.....kalau tengok harga balek, baju yang katop(tutup) badan tu lagi murah dari yang macam tak cukop kain tu......kot kalau pakai dalam rumah depan laki(suami) takpa la jugak......ni dok pi meronda(jalan jalan) sana sini kat supermarket(shopping mall) la, taman taman la, pi rumah kenduri la, mana mana saja la yang depa boleh pi......Habeh semua nak pi tunjok kat orang.....Bila orang dok ushar(tengok) depa ni pandai plak dok marah kata gatal la, mata keranjang la....Tak kurang ramai jugak ada yang seronok dan bangga bila menjadi santapan mata orang ramai sampai juling bijik mata. Bila orang tegur(untuk pakai elok elok) mula la depa akan kata balek dengan nada sinis berbaur bangga "hisss terok la u allz ni...tak ikut peredaran zaman la", "zaman dah berubah beb, kena la up to date", "eii dont be so kampong sangat la", "u ni baru keluar dari gua mana ni?sampai tak tau apa.ni la fesyen terkini kalau u nak tau". And the best part is ayat penyudah dari depa "what's your problem?!" bila dah kena ayat checkmate oleh orang yang dok tegur......kekekekeke......u guys ni memang joker la......full sense of humor.....
Apa la punya turr.....lagi berani dok kata "zaman dah berubah".....
Zaman tak pernah berubah.....yang menyebabkan perubahan tu sebenarnya adalah kita sendiri.....So kepada yang berkenaan jangan dok cakap ikot sedap mulot saja......Aku ni takdak la pandai sangat bab bab agama Islam ni tapi tetap dok mencari & dok belajar lagi selagi di izinkan olehNya untok menyampaikan dan berkongsi pengalaman untok kebaikan umat kita bersama......

Setakat ni saja la aku nak menaep pasai nak kena buat keja len plak.....tapi akan ada sambungan dari tajuk yang aku isukan kat atas tu.InsyaAllah.....
Aku akhiri penaipan aku ni dengan sebuah pantun yang dipetik dari blog saudara "ZALI PUNCAK ALAM":

Buah ini buah berangan
Masak dibungkus sapu tangan
Dunia ini pinjam pinjaman
Akhirat kelak kampung halaman

Bersambung......~

Hangin Aku.....

Pergh…that’s all I can say untok nak mengekspresikan feeling aku. Bukan apa, pasal construction yang tengah dok hot dijalankan kat roundabout kat area uptown shah alam. Depa pi tutup roundabout tu. I don’t really care if depa nak buat construction ka apa ka. Cuma bila nak pi keja and nak balek keja tu agak “damn it” la jugak. It is because I’m staying kat Seksyen 24 Shah Alam. So jalan nak ke Seksyen 24 tu agak terhad termasok jugak la nak masok ke kawasan kawasan yang sewaktu dengannya macam Seksyen 18. Yang aku dok bising ni pasai takdak polis nak jaga kat roundabout yang lagi satu tu (roundabout yang menghubungkan Seksyen 17 ngan 18). Memang jammed gila. Not including dalam Seksyen 18 sendiri. Member aku yang stay kat 18 pon dok complain pasai benda yang sama. Dalam area Section 18 tu sendiri boleh jammed. Memang la benda construction tu sat ja tapi kalau boleh biar la ada pihak berwajib mengambil inisiatif nak Silesian masalah traffic jammed ni. Dah la nak puasa. Confirm dah orang semua nak balek awal. Another thing is, about drivers attitude. Maseng maseng selfish. Its ok la then because we cant do anything bout people who are being selfish. it’s because of human behavior. But then yang aku tak paham ni orang dok nak mencelah celah ni. If u are riding a motorcycle I can accept it la. Pasal aku pon kadang tu dok bawak moto gak. Standard la tu. Tapi yang drive motorcar nak jugak turut serta menyelit. Awat hangpa ingat circus kot dok buat magic nak menyelit cam motor. Saya berasa pelik dan hairan apabila jalan yang patut ada 2 lane tau tau jadi 3 lane. Hang tak pening ka? Heiiii menyusahkan orang. Hang nak pi mana kelam kabut? Come on la. Everyone is heading back to their home too or depa nak pi tempat yang depa nak pi la kan. Patient la sket. Hang rasa hang nak cepat, balek la awal awal sket. Nak lagi mudah work from home ja. Pasang Internet kat umah, request VPN kat kampeni, settle! Lepas tu tang traffic light nak masok pi Section 24 kat Petronas tu. Pon dok ada lagi driver yang suka nak potong Q. Seb baek aku naek motor ja 2 - 3 hari ni so tak la saket hati sangat.

Hurm….alright then….got to dash…..Apa apa hal nanti akan aku update lagi…..

Wassalam….~

The 90/10 Principle

Discover the 90/10 Principle

It will change your life (or at least, the way you react to situations).

What is this Principle?

10% of life is made up of what happens to you.

…90% of life is decided by how you react…

What does this mean?

We really have NO control over 10% of what happens to us.

We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in the traffic.

We have NO control over this 10%.

The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.

How?... By your reaction.

You cannot control a red light. However, you can control your reaction.

Do not let people fool you. YOU can control how you react.

Let us use an example…

You are having breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee. Onto your business shirt. You have no control over what has just happened. What happens next

will be determined by how you react. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your wife and you criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish her breakfast and getting ready to go to school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 kilos per hour in a 30 kmh speed limit zone. After a 15-minute delay and throwing the traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minute late, You realize you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home. When you arrive home, you find a small wedge

in your relationship with your wife and daughter.

Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning.

Why did you have a bad day?

A) Did the coffee cause it?

B) Did your daughter cause it?

C) Did the policeman cause it?

D) Did you cause it?

The answer is “D”

You had no control over what happened with the coffee.

How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.

Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffe splashes over you.

Your daughter is about to cry.

You gently say:

“It’s okay, honey, you just need to be more careful next time.”

Grabbing a towel you go upstairs and change your shirt. You grab your briefcase, and you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus.

She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early a cheerfully greet the staff.

Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because of how you reacted. You really have no control over 10% of what happens in your life.

The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 Principle.

If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You do not have to let the negative comments

affect you.

React properly and it will not ruin your day.

A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend,

being fired, or getting stressed out.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in the traffic?

Do you lose your temper?

Pound on the steering wheel? (a friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off),

Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket?

Who cares if you arrive 10 seconds later at work?

Why let the cars ruin your drive?

Remember the 90/10 Principle

and don’t worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time to find a new job.

The plane is late. It is going to mangle your schedule for the day.

Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.

Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger, why stress out? It will just make things worse.

Now you know the 90/10 Principle.

Apply it and you will be amazed at the results.

You will lose nothing if you try it.

The 90/10 Principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this Principle.

The result?

You will see it by yourself!

Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and headaches.

We all must understand and apply the

90/10 Principle.

It can change your life!

…Enjoy it...

It only takes willpower to give ourselves permission to make the experience.

Absolutely everything we do, give, say, or even think, it’s like a Boomerang. It will come back to us...

If we want to receive, we need to learn to give first...

Maybe we will end with our hands empty, but our heart will be filled with love...

And those who love life, have that feeling marked in their hearts …

~It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me......~

Struggling to be the best

Sometimes, struggles are exactly what we need in our life.

If God allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as we could have been. Never been able to fly.

I asked for Strength...

and God gave me difficulties to make me strong.

I asked for Wisdom...

and God gave me problems to solve.

I asked for prosperity...

and God gave me a brain and brawn to work.

I asked for Courage…..

and God gave me obstacles to overcome.

I asked for Love...

and God gave me troubled people to help.

I asked for Favors...

And God gave me Opportunities.

“I received nothing I wanted...

But I received everything I needed."

Live life without fear, confront all obstacles and know that you can overcome them.

~It’s not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me……~

2 Jenis Respon Pada Kejayaan

Assalamualaikum,

Bila melihat seseorang berjaya mencapai satu kejayaan, apa jenis respon Anda? Adakah Anda turut hepi sama atau dengki meluat-luat? Respon pada kejayaan ada berbagai-bagai, tapi yang paling utama, ia jatuh pada 2 kategori. Ketegori respon yang pertama adalah respon positif, yang kedua adalah respon negatif.

Respon positif adalah emosi gembira tatkala Anda melihat kejayaan orang lain atau merasa terharu bila menyaksikan mereka meraikan kejayaan di depan mata Anda. Mereka yang mencapai kejayaan itu orang dekat dengan Anda, kawan Anda, orang kampung Anda atau idola kesukaan Anda. Siapa yang tak bangga tengok diorang berjaya, ye dak?

Respon negatif ni adalah emosi kecewa atau perasaan tak gembira tatkala melihat kejayaan orang lain. Mereka yang berjaya tu merupakan orang-orang yang berkrisis dengan Anda, berselisih faham, bergaduh, berperang dingin atau pernah bertikam lidah dengan Anda. Respon Anda lebih kepada yang negatif. Anda akan sakit hati nengok kejayaan diorang.

Namun, respon negatif pada kejayaan ada jugak baiknya. Ia mendorong Anda untuk berusaha dengan lebih rajin lagi, supaya lebih berjaya dari mereka. Persaingan dalam diam membuat hati kita panas, lantas menjadikan usaha kita pantas supaya kita lebih cepat berjaya.

Namun, cara itu kurang memberi kesan sebab Anda menjadikan perasaan sakit hati sebagai booster motivasi. Tak patut tu. Sila-silap nanti usaha Anda kurang berhasil. Makin sakit hati jadinya.

Cara yang patut, jadikan emosi gembira sebagai booster motivasi Anda. Itu yang ngam, memberi impak maksima.Performance Anda akan memecut laju macam mat rempit yang tengah merempit!

Yalah, tiap kali teringat kejayaan dia, mesti kita nak kejayaan yang sama jadi pada kita juga. Tak gitu?

Lama-kelamaan bila asyik teringat kejayaan, memikirkan kejayaan, mengimajinasikan kejayaan, maka akhirnyakejayaan akan jadi milik kita juga.

Sekian,

Wassalam~